Thursday, April 26, 2012

Do Romance Novels and People Empowerment Mix?

When most people think of romance novels, it’s not likely that people empowerment springs to mind – but there’s a a whole generation of romance novelists who believe that their novels can raise awareness and empower women and others to come to grips with situations in their lives. They look at women’s issues and see not just the issue but the women and families affected by them. These authors recognize a basic fact that all the college professors and statisticians who want to bring awareness to an issue miss – numbers don’t motivate people. Stories do.

How Romance Novels Empower Women

For decades, the lowly romance novel has been seen as the poor cousin of the literary novel. They are generally ignored by the critics and looked down upon by academia – but in reality, they touch more lives than nearly any other type of literature, or, for that matter, more than other types of literature combined. They appeal to women – and many men who won’t admit to it – who don’t think of themselves as academics and who are reading for entertainment rather than enlightenment.

In recent years, however, a growing body of academics has begun to recognize a simple truth: romance novels speak to women because, no matter how escapist they may seem, they are about the issues that are central to the lives of women. They are about small-w women’s small-I issues rather than the self-important Women’s Issues with upper case titles. Many of those issues overlap – they include domestic violence, human trafficking, the effects of Internet scams and love/money scams and the devastating effects that illegal adoption can have on all parties. But where Women’s Issues look at the problem from the outside and take an impersonal, almost lecturing tone, romance novels approach women’s issues from the inside, the space inhabited by so many of their readers and the women loved by their readers.

In taking on the voice of women involved in desperate situations, romance novels achieve something that most people empowerment programs can’t – they forge a bond between the reader and the characters in the story. They create a sense of identity and serve as a vehicle for understanding.

For the woman who lives in fear of her partner’s violent outbursts, that identification with a character can be empowering and liberating. The story is acknowledgement – a recognition from someone outside her head that there is something wrong – and it is not inside her. Even that simple thing can be the first step in people empowerment – the feeling that you are not alone is a powerful and empowering thing.

For others, these romance novels that focus on larger women’s issues offer a window into understanding that goes beyond the numbers and the statistics. They introduce readers to real women who are not cardboard cutouts with numbers pasted across their foreheads. They are not stories of 1 in every 5 women who have faced domestic violence or a faceless silhouette on a news magazine show telling about her abduction or involvement in gangs or a drug cartel. They are the stories of one woman, with a name and a face, a woman who is struggling but who is no different than their mothers, their sisters or themselves, if the circumstances were just a little different.

The next time you’re about to turn your nose up at a lowly romance novel, think again. These formulaic books, roundly looked down upon by much of academia, are actually subversive documents – and some of the most effective tools available for people empowerment.

Thursday, April 19, 2012

Women’s Issues In the Forefront as Women’s History Month Draws to a Close

What did you do during Women’s History Month? Did you learn something new about women’s issues? Did you hear the stories of women from around the world – including here in the United States – who have been victims of domestic violence, human trafficking or other issues that disproportionately affect women in the world? All month long, various news networks and television shows have focused the spotlight on the role of women in the world and the problems that affect them disproportionately. Some of it ignited heated controversy on all sides of the political spectrum, but there is no controversy at all about the fact that these issues need attention.

Raising Awareness of Women’s Issues

Much of the media spotlight has served one particular purpose – raising awareness of issues that affect women. For many people, though, the heated debates and sharp rhetoric that often accompany these highly politicized stories is not enlightening. Instead, it polarizes issues on which we should all be united. No woman should be afraid to report domestic violence, for example, but news stories and commentary that shame and blame the victim in those cases often make women living in violent relationships hesitate to come forward.

Throughout history, one method of raising awareness has always served better than any other to bring attention to an issue without polarizing it. That method is storytelling. A story puts a human face on any issue and can awaken sympathies that statistics can’t. A number has no face, no heart and no consequences. The true story of a survivor of human trafficking, on the other hand, gives those who have no experience with it a reference point and gives them a window into the world of the survivor.

One romance with a heroine who has survived domestic violence and is moving on with her life can do more to advance the cause of women’s issues than hundreds of demonstrations and boycotts. Thrillers about drug cartels and their cost in human lives touch people where they live and raise awareness in a way that is not controversial. A woman living in a violent relationship who reads a story where the heroine struggles with the reality of loving or leaving may finally find the courage to share her story with family or friends.

As this women’s history month comes to a close, think back on the stories you’ve heard from the media – the news stories and statistics – and consider which of them you’ll remember next month or next year. Then pick up a romantic thriller that takes on one of the difficult women’s issues of our times and read it. You’ll come away with a deeper understanding of how women and children dealing with these situations survive and make their way through them to come out on the other side.